After a little push this is the best I can get with videoloader (Very good result indeed!):
videoloader.zip
Keep in mind that there will be about 40 - 50 videos playing at the same time
This is the starling approach:
starling.zip
but I can't use it because I can't set wmode=direct. I have html code above the swf and until now I didn't found any way to archive this.
I don't know the forum rules so if you want tell me if I can post the url of the site or sent it to you with a email
Thanks for your time and this great library (greensock:Tweenmax, loaderMax, BlitMask ...)